Initial Inquiry

What you would like to be called.

This should match the ID you will submit below.

Where we will communicate.

Two files:

1. Photo of your ID.
2. A selfie of you holding that ID.

Required for screening, I use this to know that you are who you say you are, and check for any red flags.

You may cover passport/license numbers and signatures.

Where you would like to meet with me.

Your general availability or upcoming windows of availability for the month(s) will help in scheduling our Introductory Coffee Meet and subsequent appointments.

May be extended experiences, hourly sessions (include length), education & consulting, ongoing service submission, events, and more.

Keep this brief, to a few sentences.

Who are you in the world and to yourself? Who do you wish to be to me?

This is a good place to tell me whether you consider yourself submissive (beneath my power), service-oriented (you serve me for my sake), a bottom (you enjoy BDSM activities being done to you), a kinkster (you have kink interests/ideas/activities you want to explore), or a fetishist (you have specific fetishes you want to engage with). It is perfectly typical to be a combination of some or all of these.

Activities, types of appointments, kinks, fetishes, roleplays, and other desires. If you need inspiration, you'll find a list on my website under "Interests."

(Remember - I practice within local policies, and requests for sexually explicit activities (ex. 'pegging') will be ignored and denied.)

If you don't yet know what your interests are? I'll help you discover.

Allergies, injuries, medical devices in your body.

Hard and soft limits (things you will not or prefer not to explore).

Whether marks may be left on your body (temporary, or permanent).

The names and websites of two reputable providers (if available) who have seen you and agreed to speak to your character.